This is A.A. General Service Conference-approved literature
This leaflet is intended for people approaching Alcoholics Anonymous
(A.A.) for the first time. In it we have tried to answer the questions
most frequently in the minds of newcomers—the questions which were in
our minds when we first approached the Fellowship.
Am I an alcoholic?
If you repeatedly drink more
than you intend or want to, if you get into trouble, or if you have
memory lapses when you drink, you may be an alcoholic. Only you can
decide. No one in A.A. will tell you whether you are or not.
What can I do if I am worried about my drinking? Seek help. Alcoholics Anonymous can help.
What is Alcoholics Anonymous? We are a Fellowship
of men and women who have lost the ability to control our drinking and
have found ourselves in various kinds of trouble as a result of
drinking. We attempt—most of us successfully—to create a satisfying way
of life without alcohol. For this we find we need the help and support
of other alcoholics in A.A.
If I go to an A.A. meeting, does that commit me to anything?
No. A.A. does not keep membership files, or attendance records. You do
not have to reveal anything about yourself. No one will bother you if
you don't want to come back.
What happens if I meet people I know? They will
be there for the same reason you are there. They will not disclose your
identity to outsiders. At A.A. you retain as much anonymity as you
wish. That is one of the reasons we call ourselves Alcoholics
Anonymous.
What happens at an A.A. meeting? An A.A. meeting
may take one of several forms, but at any meeting you will find
alcoholics talking about what drinking did to their lives and
personalities, what actions they took to help themselves, and how they
are living their lives today.
How can this help me with my drinking problem? We
in A.A. know what it is like to be addicted to alcohol, and to be
unable to keep promises made to others and ourselves that we will stop
drinking. We are not professional therapists. Our only qualification
for helping others to recover from alcoholism is that we have stopped
drinking ourselves, but problem drinkers coming to us know that
recovery is possible because they see people who have done it.
Why do A.A.s keep on going to meetings after they are cured?
We in A.A. believe there is no such thing as a cure for alcoholism. We
can never return to normal drinking, and our ability to stay away from
alcohol depends on maintaining our physical, mental, and spiritual
health. This we can achieve by going to meetings regularly and putting
into practice what we learn there. In addition, we find it helps us to
stay sober if we help other alcoholics.
How do I join A.A.? You are an A.A. member if and
when you say so. The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire
to stop drinking, and many of us were not very wholehearted about that
when we first approached A.A.
How much does A.A. membership cost? There are no
dues or fees for A.A. membership. An A.A. group will usually have a
collection during the meeting to cover expenses, such as rent, coffee,
etc., and to this all members are free to contribute as much or as
little as they wish.
Is A.A. a religious organization? No. Nor is it allied with any religious organization.
There's a lot of talk about God, though, isn't there?
The majority of A.A. members believe that we have found the solution to
our drinking problem not through individual willpower, but through a
power greater than ourselves. However, everyone defines this power as
he or she wishes. Many people call it God, others think it is the A.A.
group, still others don't believe in it at all. There is room in A.A.
for people of all shades of belief and nonbelief.
Can I bring my family to an A.A. meeting? Family members or close friends are welcome at "Open" A.A. meetings. Discuss this with your local contact.
What advice do you give new members? In our
experience, the people who recover in A.A. are those who: (a) stay away
from the first drink; (b) attend A.A. meetings regularly; (c) seek out
the people in A.A. who have successfully stayed sober for some time;
(d) try to put into practice the A.A. program of recovery.
How can I contact A.A.? Look for Alcoholics
Anonymous in your local telephone directory. These telephones are
answered by A.A. volunteers who will be happy to answer your questions,
or put you in touch with those who can. If there is no A.A. telephone
service close to you, write or phone the A.A. General Service Office.
Here is a list of A.A. pamphlets which may be particularly helpful to you:
Is There an Alcoholic in Your Life? A.A. — 44 Questions Is A.A. for
You? Do You Think You're Different? A.A. for the Woman Young People and
A.A. Too Young?
Remember that alcoholism is a progressive disease. Take it seriously,
even if you feel you are only in the early stages of the illness.
Alcoholism kills people. If you are an alcoholic, and if you continue
to drink, in time you will get worse.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS® is a fellowship of men and women who share their
experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their
common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism.
The
only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are
no dues or fees for A.A. membership; we are self-supporting through our
own contributions.
A.A. is not allied with any sect,
denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to
engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes.
Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety.
